My Girlfriend Insists We’ve Found Her Missing Cat, But That’s Definitely Not Him.

As summer comes to a close, many of us are trying to finish up our reading lists before the season ends. To help you along, we’ve enlisted the help of some of our favorite authors to step in as Prudie for the day and offer advice. Today, we have the pleasure of hearing from Rainbow Rowell, the number one New York Times bestselling author of books like Eleanor & Park and Fangirl. Her latest book for adults, Slow Dance, is now available.

We asked Rowell to weigh in on a variety of dilemmas, including a search for a missing cat, dealing with outgoing co-workers, and navigating family visits. One particularly intriguing question came from a reader who suspected that their girlfriend’s recently found cat might not actually be their missing pet. Despite the cat’s resemblance, there were subtle differences that raised doubts. The reader grappled with whether to tell their girlfriend the truth and risk plunging her back into depression.

Rowell’s response was thoughtful and empathetic. She acknowledged the dilemma of wanting to be honest while also considering the impact on her girlfriend’s well-being. Ultimately, Rowell suggested finding a gentle way to broach the topic, highlighting the importance of honesty in a relationship.

In another scenario, a reader sought advice on how to handle a co-worker who constantly invited them out for drinks after work. Feeling overwhelmed by the constant invitations, the reader struggled to find a polite way to decline without hurting their colleague’s feelings. Rowell’s advice was straightforward yet compassionate, encouraging the reader to set boundaries and communicate their needs honestly.

Lastly, Rowell addressed a reader’s complex relationship with their sister, who seemed distant and uninterested in spending time together. Despite their efforts to maintain a connection, the reader felt frustrated by their sister’s lack of reciprocity. Rowell advised the reader to continue reaching out and staying open to opportunities to connect, while also acknowledging the limitations of the situation.

Overall, Rowell’s insights were both practical and heartfelt, offering valuable guidance on navigating challenging interpersonal dynamics. Her advice emphasized the importance of communication, honesty, and setting boundaries in relationships. Whether dealing with a missing cat, a persistent co-worker, or a distant sibling, Rowell’s wisdom resonated with readers facing their own dilemmas.

As you wrap up your summer reading, consider picking up a copy of Rowell’s latest book, Slow Dance, for a captivating read that delves into the complexities of adult relationships. And remember, when seeking advice, whether from authors like Rowell or our Prudie column, honesty and open communication are key to navigating life’s challenges.